“When someone tells you, “I love you,” and then you feel, “Oh, I must be worthy after all,” that’s an illusion. That’s not true. Or someone says, “I hate you,” and you think, “Oh, God, I knew it; I’m not very worthy,” that’s not true either. Neither one of these thoughts hold any intrinsic reality. They are an overlay. When someone says, “I love you,” he is telling you about himself, not you. When someone says, “I hate you,” she is telling you about herself, not you. World views are self views—literally.”—Saying ‘I Love You’ makes the person saying it feel good. I love to hear myself telling someone I love them. It’s a selfish act.
A common question every girl asks herself is if he is really into me or not. If you identify these signs, then it means you shouldn’t be with him anymore:
· He avoids giving you all the information. You find everything from his friends but not him, it means he’s deliberately avoiding you.
· He avoids seeing your friends. Although it’s a good gesture to ask your girlfriend to meet you alone. But if this has become his hobby it means he doesn’t want to get involved in any activity that you like.
· He ignores you and your texts. You keep on texting him and he forgets to reply or ignores your calls and texts. This means he’s doing this deliberately just to get rid of you.
· He doesn’t share his things anymore. He used to talk about his activities and interests before but now he mostly remains silent and doesn’t share his feelings or things anymore. This shows he is no longer interested in having a conversation with you.